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I have the blues today! I don’t know if it is the weather? Cloudy and rainy last 3 days. Not sure what is up? When tring to pick a catagory to put this blog in my mind drew a blank. for the most part things are going good in my life.
I found out last week the lump in my breast nothing to worry about hallejah! Chris is graduated Job Corps!!! Thanks again for all you ladies prayers for him. My father-in-law who has lung cancer seems to be doing really good.
Chris is living at home and looking for a job and that is stressful, after being empty nesters for short time. Our oldest Dustin,in Air Force Reserves, is out of advanced training, and moved back into town. But, he is meeting opposition with jobs for reservist. My husband has medical issues that, well lets put this way we are expericing a sexual famine at my casa. Few a far between intimate times. Although we did last night,and it was great and well overdue. This is going to sound strange, but it feels like I am missing or maybe morning the lost and feeling of having to wait again to feel that again. Not just the sex,but the passion and connection too. I miss him! Odd I guess but true. I hope that just being honest is OK?

Live La Dolci Vita!!


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      Mztracy wrote Sep 20, 2009
    • So glad the lump is nothing!! WOOHOO!!!

      Hubby may want to as much as you, but feel inadequate due to his medical conditions and that could be why a bit of dis-connection there. Talk with him, let him know it is more about the passion and love than the sex.  

      I know it must be hard having your son at home after being an empty nest. Look at this way, he will find work, he will move out and I guess be glad you have a home your child can come back to. estatic


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      Rene' Grandon wrote Sep 21, 2009
    • Ms V, I really feel your pain!!!worried My husband has 2 hernia one his tummy and another in his groin. When we have sex I must admit i get satisified but he doesn’t. Then he will hurt for days afterward. It makes me feel bad that he doesn’t get satisified and i wonder did i do something wrong? I feel bad he is in pain!! I did talk to him this weekend about it. He said he does really want to have sex and in his own words it f-ing sucks. He said i may need to get toys til he can get fixed? He is so frustrated.We don’t have insurance and it is considered pre-exsisting condition anyway. Yes I will be happy to have the nest empty again! Thanks ladies you are the best!  


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