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How silly huh? I just don’t want to be a DECEMBER!! I have too much left to do!! So I suppose it’s a vanity issue too!
ANYHOW - My boyfriend/EX fiance is 21 years my junior. He is not a gold digger or opportunist either. (haha - had to say it)!
We have so much fun, we have wonderful conversations, he has brought me out of my shell and offered me a freedom of self-discovery that I had NEVER had before - EVER. I led an exciting life for years, traveled, dated a varity of men.... was married 14 years...But this - this has been SOMETHING ELSE!
WE are in the 20th month of our relationship, and had a few very rough moments (henseforth the EX-fiance).. we seperated a couple times, but neither of us could/would stay away from eachother...always within 3 days...we are on the phone...meeting for lunch - We are Best Friends.
However he has become jealous - very much so - has started going through my purse/billfold, cell phone....and monitoring my schedule. He says he has no idea what has caused this new found attitude, has just decided that I am so beautiful and that anyone would be lucky to have me ... blah blah blah - blowing smoke - whatever... I don’t know.
70% of the time things are still really good....the other is spent in debate or stressed conversations....I just don’t get it....
In my heart I feel that this is truly the beginning of our end - and that hurts. I’m not afraid or worried about startin over again... Though I do Not Look foward to it...but that is another entry!
Just wondered if anyone had insight.....
And FYI - I don’t think he’s cheating or such, I could be an idiot - but truly, he has no time to.....so no transference issue that I can see....
Thanks for the read - and your time.... xo
Gosh - Don’t I know it Kristi - and It is truly such a bummer (for lack of a better word) cause this was not an issue at all for the 1st 1 1/2 years.... I just don’t understand it....
But then I still have a hard time understanding how wireless things work - and how we can make calls across the world and - and - and 
Awe - the joy of a simple mind!
Thanks for your feedback. I do appreciate it!
i agree with Kristi on this...
i wish you the best in this situation my friend!
Not to be too ‘heavy’ about his...but some of what you said about the jealousy, mistrust, tracking your schedule etc. are often signs of a potential abuser.
It can be a sign of a lack of self control and self confidence - often the next step is lack of anger control.
Just saying!
ISAGENIXBELIEVER: It is so interesting that you would say that....As it’s been said before.
While there were some boughts of impatience and even loss of control with breaking things - There has never been any true violence or reason for me to feel concern for MY wellbeing - - and the other I attributed to his crappy upbringing....
Does someone that hasn’t expressed/shown any physical violence in over 1 1/2 years all of a sudden become that way? From what I’ve gathered from his past there have been some control issues, but again, no physical violence....
Not sugar coating or looking for a way “out of” the opinion - I am TRULY Curious - and Interested - obviously for good reason
Thank you!
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