Ok! Enough Is Enough

Ok so many of you know about the ordeal my (male) friend went through a few months back with his wife and how I had tried to be there as his friend. We’ve been friends since he was 12 and I was 16. Ok here is the deal it has been months since his wifey walked out of his life telling him she no longer wanted to be with him and she has since moved back to Georgia. Ok so he moved back here to Michigan per (his mom) to get himself together, well since then he has been doing absolutely nothing with his life. He lost his job and is not trying to look for work won’t consider going back to school for his G.E.D seeing he didn’t graduate high school, he is just bumming around literally. living off his mom or anyone else who’d allow him to. Now don’t get me wrong his mom is not in no way hindering him of course she loves him and doesn’t want to see him on the street and she has told him to get himself together because she wants her house back to herself and her boyfriend, and I ain’t mad about that! She is so right. He is soon to be 47 years old and is acting like the world owes him something.

Well I have been keeping a low profile concerning him not being ready available because he was seeming to become dependent on me, and I can’t have that! I’m a married woman. My hubby is very aware of him and who he is they just never met, but I have shared my history with my hubby about him. Well my friend has seemingly turned for the worse, he has begun hanging out with hoodlums, and sleeping in the streets meaning anywhere he can if you’d allow him to stay, possibly selling drugs again (this was something he did back in the day)and the reason I feel he has gone back to that is because last weekend about 2am he called me and I heard a lot of male voices in the background, he sounded as if he was intoxicated and asked me what was I doing, I said “sleeping” he asked me if I could get out? I said “No! I have to go to work in a few hours, why are you calling me at this time anyway?” He got mad and “said I need you to come and get me I got into some sh**!” I told him “No!” and that what ever he was in he’d have to deal with it and hung up the phone.
Since that time I have been evading his phone calls, he is such a loser now. He did get me the other day asking me if I could come by I asked him for what reason, he claimed he just wanted to see me, but I felt in my spirit it was more than that so I never went. He has no money, job, or car and its not looking too prosperous for him especially with the group of guys he’s hanging out with. He looks terribly bad from the last time I did see him.
He had been trying call me to see what I’m doing which is none of his business, I won’t answer so he’ll text me.
I have gotten to the point now seeing he has slumped into nothingness I want no parts of him any longer. He is a huge disappointment and I want to steer clear of him all together. I’m already looking to get a new cell phone so he can’t call me not that I have to get a new phone I know I can change the number I just want a new phone lol.

So if it were you would you feel the same as I?