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Posted on Tuesday, August 21, 2012 by Denise Richardson
Hi Ladies,
Yesterday my daughter sent me a message via Facebook, saying that an ex friend of mines daughter sent her a message with phone number of her moms to call her, I haven’t spoken to this person in about a year, we didn’t fall out or anything it’s just her life style choices that I’m not fond of and don’t want to be a part, ( excessive drinking, hanging out in gay clubs w/gay-lesbians, going to swingers parties, just wilding out at our age 50ish) I’m not judging her because what she does and who she does it with is her business, but I don’t want those kinds of people/spirits around me and my family. She smokes marijuana, and can be a bit loose at time when under the influence, even though my hubby works long hours, I personally don’t want her around him, even though he never was one to sit amongst my friends, since our absence I’m not sure what else she may have gotten into so my question to you all is would you call to allow this person back into your circle, knowing her if I call she is going to assume its ok to start coming over, or that we can pick up where we left off?
I would call and evaluate where she is at now and if she is engaging in the same lifestyle choices that I have problems with, I would then walk away
Hmmmm..... I would wonder why she wants to get back in touch. Is it she’s a woman gone wild and may need a steady influence?
A phone call never hurt and If she is just wanting to hang out and you find she is no different just tell her your life paths are on a different course.
thans for your responses ladies I’m going to ponder over this a bit longer.
a meeting with her will do you do harm so long as you stick to the reasons why you are no longer closer friends. a meeting at a coffee shop or somewhere else on neutral grounds, not at your house. a park would be nice. fresh air, good scenery and open space. neicy this person can only receive help or seek change if they truly want it.
It never hurts to go have coffee. As someone else said, she may need your steadying influence.
Big question is, do you even like this person? Do you want to be around her? From your question, I kind of get a sense that you don’t. So simply ignore.
To answer your question Tulip, I do like her, but not the lifestyle she has chosen to live lately or shall I say the last time I saw her.
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