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If someone hurts your feelings or was rude to you, do you confront them or you just let go?
I normally stay away from ***holes, as they only spread toxic vibes..but if I must be around them, then I either laugh right at them in a derogatory way or cut them off in mid sentence the next time they open their mouth!
I tend to nip it in the bud no matter who it is, friend or foe. People who know me know better, and those who don’t, soon find out.
I’m a go to person, so I’d have to confront them about the matter to get an understanding then an apology from them.
Thanks ladies for your comments.
Our new program coordinator and a few of us share a small office. She thinks the office is exclusively hers and snapped at me for coming in 2 times when she was working with some kids. I don’t bother her or the students. I come in for a few seconds to drop off some books and to get the books for my next class. The next day she told me to come in the office JUST ONE TIME! (putting her index finger up). I told her I won’t come in at all and later when she wasn’t there I packed up my things in a box. The staff kitchen is my place now. My coworkers say that I should confront her, but I don’t want to. Hopefully, she will realize and apologize to me. If not, oh well...
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I NEVER sugar coat an answer if a FRIEND asks they know they will get the truth of how I feel. I would never ever INTENTIONALLY be mean but if someone asks they will receive. If someone is being rude to me I will say something because they may not even realize what they said/did. I have a friend I gave my advice when she asked-she absolutely twisted the words, put words in my mouth I never said I told her that was so rude to express to a mutual friend words I never used-she felt better.
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