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What would you do? Ladies I have a friend who is married but she and her hubby are not together. They have been married for about 10 years, from day one he has been a cheater and has always cheated on her throughout their marriage even prior to marriage, but she still jumped the broom with this clown, anyhow she has moved on, has her  own place with their two small daughters he also has kids in other places as well, here’s the thing he’s done nothing but make her life miserable since she decided not to live with him but they are still legally married, he has recently put bleach in her gas tank, this just one of many antics he has done to her and all because she has caught him with other women. If this were you what would you do?

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I knew it a bully and a coward ......and a mummy's boy to boot ....WIMP!
You know what if she just had the guts to turn round and punch his lights out and kick the s**t out of him he would never touch her again .....
I pray she get the strengh to do that honestly ..
Next time I’m on my heavy meds I’ll fly over and cut his dick off - with my meds I’ll be excused ......job done


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      Inakika wrote Jan 11, 2009
    • Wow! That’s deep! I would get a restraining order and maybe think about moving somewhere else that he does not know about. How frightening!




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      Denise Richardson wrote Jan 11, 2009
    • Inakika, she has moved so many times its a shame and this fool still finds her, she has had restraining orders on him but he just keeps on comin’ I told her give me $1000.00 and take him out permenantly lol.




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      Inakika wrote Jan 11, 2009
    • That’s REAL scary. Has she thought about video taping him? Or keeping a journal of all the incidents. Then she would have proof to present to the courts.
      I can’t understand how he keeps finding her. I would move in the middle of the night and even my kids would be on a “need to know basis” as to where we live! Someone is telling on her.




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      Mz. Queen wrote Jan 11, 2009
    • Is she moving to another state or just moving within the same city.  

      Next we just have to be observant and wait, I wouldn’t hesitate to have him arrested for violating the restraining order. Damn, this is always hard, because every situation,personalities and factors are different even if I have been through the same as the woman I’m speaking to.




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      Denise Richardson wrote Jan 11, 2009
    • She has gone to court on this fool so many times and he still just keeps on coming. At one point she would let him reel her in by using the kids saying he wanted to be in his girls lives but it was judt to find her. I have told her time and time again he is only using those kids to know your where abouts, “we” (meaning me and some other friends including a guy friend of hers) took photos of the bruises on her body from the beatings, we have documented stuff and still this nut case still keeps coming i think he has a death wish, his own.




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      Denise Richardson wrote Jan 11, 2009
    • 47, believe you me it is definately NOT me! she is still moving within the same city, state she works for the post office and I’m not sure if he has a way of finding her where abouts from that.




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      Trudy S wrote Jan 11, 2009
    • Why are they still married?




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      Denise Richardson wrote Jan 11, 2009
    • Trudy! that’s the 1 million dollar question I have asked her. She keeps thinking he is going to change I’m believing only she and God knows the truth as to why she is still married to this clown. At one point she told me it was for the sake of the kids yeah right!




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      Trudy S wrote Jan 11, 2009
    • Until she makes the break there is really nothing anyone can do for her.  Somewhere, deep down inside, she thinks she deserves this guy.  Until she realizes that she has done NOTHING in her life to give anyone the right to treat her this way - she is lost.




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      Denise Richardson wrote Jan 11, 2009
    • 1bette, I have talked to her counseled her to no end as you and trudy has said she has to make up in her mind that she is not going to take it any more and really hold to her guns on this nut case. But honestly speaking I think she is afraid he’ll kill her.




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      Leadinladytracy wrote Jan 11, 2009
    • She needs to divorce him ASAP, but only she can do this.

      Second if it was me, I have friends and family and they would dare him to put bleach in my gas tank again. I don’t think so!




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      Denise Richardson wrote Jan 11, 2009
    • I hear ya leadinglady I second that one!!




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      UK Girl wrote Jan 11, 2009
    • I agree with everyone has said - but has anyone thought of having a *quiet*  word with this guy and telling him his fortune and just explaining a few facts of life .... maybe down a dark road with a bag over his head while he is lying in the trunk of a car ........




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      Denise Richardson wrote Jan 11, 2009
    • LOL UKgirl, he is such the coward he does his dirt to her then runs he does these antics at random so she never knows when he is going to pop up and she has no known address on him other than his moms house, she has told me that she has tried to speak with his mom about his doings but the mother can’t offer her any solutions seemingly to me she upholds her son in his mess, but girl I told her better her than me because he would have been dead and unrecognizable.




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      Cassandra wrote Jan 11, 2009
    • How about a sock full of pennies ? BLAM!!!! It works every time ..... or so I‘v heard .




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      UK Girl wrote Jan 11, 2009
    • I knew it a bully and a coward ......and a mummy's boy to boot ....WIMP!
      You know what if she just had the guts to turn round and punch his lights out and kick the s**t out of him he would never touch her again .....
      I pray she get the strengh to do that honestly ..
      Next time I’m on my heavy meds I’ll fly over and cut his dick off - with my meds I’ll be excused ......job done




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      Denise Richardson wrote Jan 11, 2009
    • UKgirl you got me ROTFLMBO!!! you are a Hot Mess!!  but I'm so feeling you.




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      Denise Richardson wrote Jan 11, 2009
    • Empower, I have been there with her and back and still she continues to let this a**wipe do what he does. WHYYYYYYYYYYYYYY!???????????????????




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      Denise Richardson wrote Jan 11, 2009
    • Hi Cmen, I can ask her about her friendships with any cops but I do have some cop friends as well as relatives, but I’m leery about them getting involved because of her I’m not sure thats what she wants. I can mention it to her as far as her going to a shelter that I can say would be out of the question for her, as a matter of fact I’m going to see if I can get her to join this site and she’ll be abel to open up and see how others handle different issues and maybe something will spark in her to do something about her situation I’m all out of solutions for her.




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      UK Girl wrote Jan 11, 2009
    • Denise get her to join this site it will empower her the best way possible from within - then she will give him the fright of his life ...... you can do the bag over his head and I’ll hire the car - deal !
      Seriously get her to join the site




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      Psalmist wrote Jan 11, 2009
    • ...and i’ll make sure the back alley remains dark!




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      Denise Richardson wrote Jan 11, 2009
    • ROTFLMBO @ UKgirl & Psalmist, ya'll are my kinda girls yeah baby!!! Yes I am going to introduce her to this site.




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      Denise Richardson wrote Jan 11, 2009
    • I’m not sure of his age but she is 44 he is such a coward and he knows how I feel about him he truly keeps out of my sight.




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      Denise Richardson wrote Jan 11, 2009
    • Hey Teeky I was wondering where you were good evening my sister.




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      Denise Richardson wrote Jan 11, 2009
    • Yes girl I’m fine. Been here all day with the FAB40 sisters chatting away lol. This site is so addictive I told my hubby about it as well as plans for some of us to meet in Cinncinati in September he is happy about me meeting new people seeing I get tired of drama queens quickly and he has seen a lot of them come and go in my life lol.




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      Denise Richardson wrote Jan 11, 2009
    • Oooooooooo I truly hope YOU can make it I am so looking forward to meeting as many of us FAB girls as possible.




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