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I am finding myself thinking about things deeper than I used to.  I am feeling the need to connect to people on a deeper level and the need to find real meaning in my life.  For those of you feeling like myself, what have you done to fulfill this need?


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      Daphne wrote Sep 29, 2008
    • I began feeling the pull you mention when i was about 40 and my father was dying of cancer.  I believe that this need came in my life when i was facing my own mortality.  I realized that i was going to die someday and was afraid that I was not doing what I should be doing to get everything out of my life that was possible.  When i saw the actual process of death in action, it became so very real to me that i had to face my own fears and frustrations.  For me, committing myself to my family on a level I’d not done before was the beginning of my work.  I eliminated some toxic relationships in my life and cultivated my circle of friends.  I realized that my fulfillment comes from within...“happiness is an inside job.”  I work hard to be the person i want others to think i faking for me!

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      VICKY CORYEA wrote Sep 30, 2008
    • I began to take care of my friendships better. I realized these are my gifts from God and I need to nurture them. I listen when I can and reach out to them to try to council when I can. Its a wonderful feeling and I feel it very strongly thats what my purpose is. To help and empathize with those I can.

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