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If you suspected your partner is cheating on you, would you put a trace on your computer to catch him/her?

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      Anonymous wrote Jun 27, 2008
    • I would definitely look into a way to trace who he is talking to. However if you do find that he cheating, I would not reveal the way I found out. I would keep this verified information to myself and make him think that you found out another way.

      Hope this helps and good luck.




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      Kendal wrote Jun 27, 2008
    • Being the crazy lady I am, I would likely trace his computer. I will not be disrespected, especially when its happening under my nose.

      Do let us know how it goes.




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      Lisa VM wrote Jun 28, 2008
    • This is something I can write a book about! If it hadn’t been for my ex-boyfriend, I never would have caught my guy. He told me to download and install a “keylogger” and within 24 hours I had my answer, it was a roller coaster ride... and for the first time I heard him admit he was stupid and wrong. But there was so much more to it.... if you ever suspect anything, go to www.refrog.com and get it, you can use it if you think your kids are up to something too... like drugs or pron. It works.




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      Yana Berlin wrote Jun 28, 2008
    • I would use anything that was available to me to find out if my suspicion is a valid one.
      A bitter truth is so much better than a sweet lie.




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      Amy L. Harden wrote Jul 31, 2008
    • Yes...if your gut is telling you that he may be having an affair...then he probably is...use whatever method you can to find out if this is indeed true.  Check the computer, e-mails, text messages, cellphone logs (paper bills and on-line, these cannot be deleted), credit card bills for unusal purchases or dining that you were not a part of...whatever.  

      Always be truthful about where you got the information.  The primary component of an affair is secrets, lies and deceit...if you lie or not disclose about where you got the information that is trapping your man in the corner, then you are being just as deceitful.  You are not the one in the wrong...HE is the one having the affair...HE has betrayed you! If he wasn’t doing anything wrong, you wouldn’t have to spy on him...now would you? The only time not to disclose this IS if you determine that he isn’t having an Affair...but even then you probably should...something is up in your relationship that you are not trusting your man...you need to discuss this issue with him.




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      Anonymous wrote Mar 8, 2009
    • It is about your peace of mind.  I did what I had to to find out the truth as much as I could.  Learn to ask the right questions at the right time from the right people.  If you work through this time you will have growth regardless of whether he is cheating or not.  Good hunting!




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