I’m a successful on-line dater. I enjoy it and I’ve met really nice people. I’ve even had a serious and long term relationship with a wonderful man I met on line. But, according to my friends, I’m the only one who has chartered these water’s successfully. They tell me they only find the weird ones. Or the guy they met was really married and my favorite, only creepy people go on line. They say this ...

If you want to attract the love of your life, you need to make sure that all of your behaviors are congruent with that desire. Most singles find a man to fill in the void while they wait for Mr. Right to show up. I did this for years, hanging around Mr. Right Now’s convincing myself it was alright…for now. Little did I know that I was unconsciously sabotaging my efforts, sending a strong message to my subconscious that I ...

This is a story I’ve heard many times. It is a good reminder of how to be judge-free of life’s events. A young farmer and his wife gave birth to a son in a small village. The villagers around him proclaimed, “What good luck! You have a son to help you in the fields.” The farmer replied, “It could be good or it could be bad.” About 15 years later, one of his horses ran away. The villagers shared their ...

The search is exciting, but the catch is disappointing. Recognize that experience? When you interact with a potential partner your internal monitor searches for features that match items on your conscious checklist like appearance, status, and humor. But your unconscious is making a different search. It is looking for someone that resembles key figures in your life with whom you have unresolved issues. Guess which part of you makes the final choice. Yes, it is the unconscious. Your internal radar ...